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The grandfamily guidebook : wisdom and support for grandparents raising grandchildren / Andrew Adesman, MD, and Christine Adamec with a foreword by William Sears, MD.

Adesman, Andrew, (author.). Adamec, Christine A., 1949- (author.). Sears, Williams, (writer of introduction.).

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Are you one of nearly 3 million grandparents across North America raising your grandchildren as part of a grandfamily? You may have done all this parenting stuff before, but times have changed since you raised your own kids, and you likely never thought you'd be raising kids again. What has led to all these family issues and the growing need for grandparents to step up? Now more than ever, substance use and addiction have made many birth parents simply unfit for the job, whether the problem is alcohol, opioids, or other drugs. Family dynamics might also be undermined by parents' mental health or medical problems, incarceration, or a simple lack of preparedness for family responsibilities. Whatever the reason for your new role, you must now help your grandchildren adjust to their extended family as part of their everyday life, through the best care you are able to provide. While your new role means that you will likely have to change the way you live, the kinship care you provide your grandchildren might make all the difference in the world. In The Grandfamily Guidebook - which leading medical experts have called a "must-have" resource for grandparents raising grandchildren - authors Andrew Adesman, MD, and Christine Adamec offer expert medical advice, helpful insights gleaned from other grandparents, and data mined from the 2016 Adesman Grandfamily Study - the broadest and most diverse research study of its kind to date. You'll also find hands-on tips you'll be able to reference whenever you need them, including how to cope with difficult birth parents, school issues and social-life challenges, problem behaviors that stem from a difficult past, and your own self-care. Starting with its foreword by the renowned Dr. William Sears, across this book you will find practical, inspiring help as you navigate the financial impacts, legal considerations, and medical issues that commonly arise when grandparents and grandchildren start becoming a grandfamily.

Record details

  • ISBN: 9781616497576
  • ISBN: 1616497572
  • Physical Description: xx, 392 pages : charts ; 23 cm
  • Publisher: Center City, Minnesota : Hazelden Publishing, 2018.

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Bibliography, etc. Note:
Includes bibliographical references.
Subject: Grandchildren.
Grandparent and child.
Grandparents as parents.
Parenting.
Genre: Guidebooks.

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  • 133 of 137 copies available at Missouri Evergreen. (Show)
  • 1 of 1 copy available at Rolla Public.

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The Grandfamily Guidebook : Wisdom and Support for Grandparents Raising Grandchildren
The Grandfamily Guidebook : Wisdom and Support for Grandparents Raising Grandchildren
by Adesman, Andrew; Adamec, Christine
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The Grandfamily Guidebook : Wisdom and Support for Grandparents Raising Grandchildren

SectionSection DescriptionPage Number
Glossary of Abbreviations and Acronymsp. xv
Forewordp. xix
Introduction: You're a Grandfamily Nowp. 1
Part 1Ready or Not, You're Raising? Your Grandchildren
Chapter 1    A Family, Reinvented: Who Grandfamilies Are-and How We Got Herep. 9
        How Did You Get Here?
        Think Again: Avoiding Common Pitfalls
        Grandfamily Data: Who Are We, and What's on Our Minds?
Chapter 2    From Shock to Joy-and Everything in Betweenp. 43
        Notice Your Feelings: Some Common Emotions
        Dealing with Your Own Emotions
        What Kind of Help Is Available?
Chapter 3    Let's Get Real: Strategies for Dealing with the Middle Generationp. 77
        When Worlds Collide: You Clash with the Child's Parents
        Possible Problems during Visits
        Drawing the Line: When Contact Is Too Difficult
        If and When the Birth Parent's Situation Changes
Part 2Adjusting to the New Normal
Chapter 4    "Why Aren't My Birth Parents Raising Me?"p. 113
        Explaining to a Child's Level of Understanding
        Think Again: Avoid Unhelpful Explanations
        More on the Underlying Issues
        Other Issues That May Need Discussion
Chapter 5    Responding to Problem Behaviorsp. 145
        Sleep Problems
        Food Problems
        Regressive Behaviors
        Aggressive Behaviors
        Myths and Realities about Child Discipline
Chapter 6    Challenges at School-and Where to Find Helpp. 177
        Getting Started at School
        Your Relationship with Your Grandchild's Teacher
        The School and the Classroom: How Good a Fit?
        Social Problems at School
        Achievement in School: How to Help Your Grandchild
        Does My Grandchild Have a Disability or Need Special Education (or Both)?
        What Else Might Be Holding My Grandchild Back?
Part 3Legal and Financial Resources: Using Them to Your Grandfamily's Advantage
Chapter 7    Child Custody Issuesp. 215
        Child Custody: Key Ideas, Terms, and Factors to Consider
        Understanding the Options: Several Types of Legal Custody
        Adoption
Chapter 8    Grandfamily Financep. 245
        Practical Help from Federal, State, and County Resources
        Cash Benefits: Programs That Make Direct Financial Payments
        Non-Money Benefits
        Other Benefits
        Finding Financial Aid: Three Resources
Part 4Healthy in Body and Mind
Chapter 9    Understanding Children's Behavioral Disorders and Mental Healthp. 271
        Understanding Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder
        Autism Spectrum Disorder: What Is It?
        When Your Grandchild May Be Depressed
        Coping with Your Grandchild's Anxiety
        Post-traumatic Stress Disorder in Children
        Disruptive Behavior Disorders
        Prenatal Exposure to Alcohol or Other Drugs
Chapter 10    Raising a Healthy Childp. 297
        Dr. Adesman's Updated Child Health Care Tips for Grandparents
        Common Medical Problems for Children
        Daily Habits for Health
        The Facts about Immunizations
        Finding a Good Pediatrician
        Finding Reliable Medical Websites
        When You Have Little or No Medical Information on Your Grandchild
Chapter 11    Staying Healthy Yourselfp. 327
        Managing Common Health Conditions for Adults Fifty and Up
        Take Steps to Help Prevent Serious Health Problems
        Preventive Care to Help You Live Longer
        Act Now for a Longer, Healthier Life
Conclusion When You Are the Best Alternativep. 347
Appendixes
1    Resourcesp. 351
2    Kinship Navigator Programs: A State-by-State Directoryp. 355
3    State Adoption Assistance and Subsidized Guardianship: Basic Factsp. 361
Notesp. 369
Acknowledgmentsp. 389
About the Authorsp. 391

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